January is a time of change and the bedroom is one of the best places to start.
So to get you started here are just a few suggestions from The 30 Best Sex Fantasies
If any of these have tickled your curiosity, then grab your lover and tell them every kind of naughty though that has been running around your head. Then let us know if there are any tools you need to get things 'going' for you. There is a wide range so feel free to choose as much as you like!1. Boss and Employee Fantasy
Fifty-six percent of women and 61 percent of men have sexual fantasies about getting it on with co-workers in their office. So why not dress up in your work attire, get behind the desk, and re-create the hot new hookup scenario that's been on your mind? The allure of having sex with a coworker, especially your boss, has to do with gaining power. And that’s hot.2. Dominate
Power is a rush, there's no doubt about it. Many women dream about having a man obey their every wish, so why not unleash your inner dominatrix and try it out in the bedroom? You can do this by simply calling all the shots or by experimenting with whips, handcuffs, etc. Either way, you'll be in total control, and he'll be completely devoted. Win, win.3. Have Sex Outside
Want the thrill of getting it on outside the bedroom without the risk of getting caught? Embrace the elements, and try doing it in a secluded area outside at night. The grass, the sand, the pool—the great outdoors is your sex playground.4. Be an Exhibitionist
In his study of sexual fantasy, Who's Been Sleeping in Your Head?, Brett Kahr found 19 percent of people fantasize about being watched during sex—and another 5 percent fantasize about taking their clothes off in public. In for the risk? Put on a show. Get it on near the windows in your home or hotel room.5. Be Voyeuristic
Does watching the show from the sidelines turn you on? Whether you're spying on the neighbors or the couple getting it on at the beach, this fantasy is a common one. One easy way to make it happen? Go to a nude beach or a sex show with your partner.6. Watch Each Other Masturbate
Put a twist on your voyeuristic fantasy by watching your partner masturbate—or letting them watch you. It will help them better understand what you desire, and of course, it's an instant turn on.7. The Stranger Fantasy
Sharing a fantasy for the very first time? Here's an easy one both men and women enjoy. There's something sexy and mysterious about anonymity. In fact, the LELO Global Sex Survey discovered that having sex with a stranger is on the rise this year. An easy way to get in on the trend: Turn yourselves into strangers. No matter how long you've known your partner, pretend you don't know him at all. Choose different clothes, new hairstyles, different personalities, different names. Start by meeting at a bar, then take your new friend home—and stay in character the entire time.8. Make A Sex Video
While men may be more visual, women are interested in porn, too. A Stanford University study found that women reach their peak arousal after just two minutes into an erotic flick. According to Men's Health, it's not just celebrities who want to make sex tapes—40 percent of women want to make a homemade flick with their partners. In 2012, 28 percent of women made a sex video with their guy, and in 2014, that number is expected to climb to 52 percent. So get on it while it's hot. After you watch it, though, make sure to hide it safely or quickly delete it.9. Threesome Fantasy
Want to get it on with your partner and another man or woman? Threesomes are a popular fantasy—and they're trendier than ever. The LELO study revealed that this year, 20 percent of women have had a threesome. They say they love the rush and added stimuli.10. Have Sex In Public
According to Men's Health, 64 percent of women want to step outside the bedroom and get frisky in public. It makes sense: The rush, risk of getting caught—it all adds to your experience. Talk about where you both feel comfortable doing the deed, whether it's an elevator, a bathroom, or your backyard.
Whether a total Experimental Virgin or an Outgoing Voyeur, everyone enjoys spicing things up a little (or a lot!).